I learned at the very beginning that one of the most profound aspects to this “gift” I’ve had for as long as I can remember is that it makes you think, question, and consider things that most people rarely do.  That is, coming to some sense of self, some awareness of why the things are the way they are, some ability to question what might seem obvious, and some keener recognition of yourself and your world were critical to finding some sense of peace.


I use this page to share some of my thoughts, some of my experiences, and some of my somewhat unique perspective on different topics that come to mind. I am not looking to compose perfect, beautiful literature here. Rather, the goal is to try to express some very difficult feelings and thoughts so I will do the best I can to put them into words.  I may or may not succeed.


You may consider some of it to be profound.  It may provides insight into things in a way you haven't considered before.  On the other hand, you may consider it to be completely whacked.  No matter.  I invite you to read in the same spirit with which I share it, as the musing of someone who has had way too much time and opportunity to consider things that most people seem to take for granted.


My ex-wife used to tell me that “smart people think too much”.  Maybe so.  I’ll admit at the outset that I’m no smarter than anyone else.  It’s just that I’ve been forced to consider things in a whole new way thanks to life circumstance.  If any of us truly believes that life is 10% of what happens and 90% of how you deal with it you’ll quickly recognize the need to find new, stimulating, thought-provoking ways of considering things.  How do you rationalize the irrational?  How do you explain the unexplainable?  There is some pretty deep, complicated stuff involved for those willing to take the time to get right with themselves.  And, some of it is simpler than we realize. 


The point is, more of this journey happens between your ears than between your legs, and that’s where this page fits.


Donna’s Musings, and Essays on Life and Self

 

Changes


My Rules


Selfish


A Sister’s Perspective


Hidden Identities


Know Thyself


Some Things That I Miss


Transition: A Survivor’s Guide


A Stealth Life


In The Face of Stolen Tomorrows

Some Thoughts for Transgendered Husbands and their Wives


What I Want To Be When I Grow Up


A Discussion of Sex and Gender

The Heart of the Transgender Dilemma


Blinded By Science

The Search for Scientific Answers to Transgender Questions


The Other Side of the Fence

Added June 11, 2005


Drop Your Guard

Discovering Your Vulnerable Self


Becoming Visible

Jamison Green’s SCC 2005 Keynote Address


Coming Out

In Celebration of National Coming Out Day (10/15/2005)


Forgiveness

A Perspective on Achieving Closure and Finding Peace (1/25/06)


In Memory

Remembering a dear friend (4/10/06)


The Transgender Ghetto

Gender Immigrants (5/9/06)


More Than Words

It’s not that we don’t have enough words.  We just don’t have the Right words.  (10/18/06)


Transition: A Matter of Cost

One Trans-woman’s thoughts on some of the many costs of transitioning (1/7/07)


Some Things I think I think....